Monday, March 15, 2010

Day 0 (pre-transplant)

Well I think I spoke too soon about the improvement in Max’s bottom. Last night I noticed the first 2 blisters. We need to increase his salt baths to twice daily (and the morphene). One nurse said it is quite likely that Max is all ulcerated on the inside too, which is what is causing him so much pain each time he needs to poo. These are all things that we have been told to expect, but you can never really prepare for it when it actually happens.

The type of chemo used for bone marrow transplants (different types are used for different purposes) affect all the fast growing cells – hair, nails, mouth, gut and bottom, this is why Max’s hair will fall out, his nails will be affected, and he will get severe ulceration in his mouth and bottom. Mouth care and bottom care are therefore paramount. Max has not eaten or drunk for the past week or so, but incase he feels like something, he is on what’s called a ‘Clean Diet’ (food with no or minimal possibility of bacteria and untouched by humans). We have all been wearing beautiful white gowns since admission, but as Max’s counts approach zero we will all be required to wear masks aswell – I already feel like I’m part of Space Odyssey 2010!.



Around the time of the stem cell infusion today (time change - now at around 2pm), nurses will also change Max’s Hickman line dressing. There is still bleeding coming from the site more than 2 weeks after the surgery! (all due to Max’s low platelet counts).

Will update again later…

7 comments:

  1. Hi Max, We're so proud, You really are the bravest little guy in the whole world. Thinking of You today, We Love You so Much.
    Uncle Jono, Aunty Karen, Griffin and Evie. xoxox

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  2. To brave little Max.

    It is heart breaking knowing you are in such pain and we all feel for you. You have all the love, care and prayers of soooo many who are on this painful road with you that you have to endure to become well and healthy. You are such a brave little boy. Get well Max and look forward to a healthy and happy future. Love Lynne and John. xoxo

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  3. I'm thinking of you guys and hey, you know how time flashes by, soon you will be at day 100 and then day 300 and then no looking back - cured! Hope the goal stays in sight throughout and helps you through it, and that Max stays true to his strong happy self and leads the way. Thinking of you every day, you are doing a great job.
    Sue xx

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  4. Hey you three, just finished reading the updated blog - and I didn't smell a thing!!! It's almost impossible for me to find any words of comfort after reading just what Max has been enduring however I can say that I am so proud of you three - what a family - you guys are doing an absolutely amazing job - leading with your beautiful hearts and I love you all very much. Always thinking of you and good luck with the transplant. love always, aunty cheryle.

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  5. Hi Max, Bee and Tim,
    It breaks our heart to read what Max is going through at the moment. You are in our thoughts always and we love you so much. We are so proud of the way you are coping and we know you will get through this. We are so looking forward to a healthy future for Max.
    All our love and prayers are with you now.
    Love always from Darwin,
    Aunty Catherine and Uncle Jimmy xoxoxoxo

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  6. Hi to all Family and friends of Max der Starke, I would like to share with you my very happy experience tonight. Firstly, reading about Bianca and Tim's experiences over the past 10 days doesn't really prepare you for the reality of the situation but there is an upside. Max's room has been beautifully decorated with family photo's and is filled with toys, books and cards but more importantly the love of both his parents fills the air of the little cramped room in the isolation ward of the childrens Oncology Unit on the 6th floor.

    I spent some time on my own with Max whilst Tim & Bianca had a short dinner break. During this time, I chatted to Max, recounted some of our past shared experiences and read some of his favourite stories. Most of this time he dozed quietly however every now and then, he would open his beautiful blus eyes and say 'yes Marwa' and then doze back off to sleep holding on tight to his little purple car/bus.

    I entered the room tonight scrubbed, masked and gowned,hoping that I would see the Max that I knew and loved so well. I feared that the toll of all the invasive medical procedures,the medication and pain he has had to endure and the loss of his normal daily life may have had an impact on him: the only difference was that I had to share my time with him with Mr Hose, Mr Nose and Mr Pee Pee! Marwa xxxx

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  7. Dear Maxi,
    We love you more than life itself.We know that you have great inner strength and will soldier on and win this battle because you are 'Maxi The Strong One'.We are with you in mind,body and spirit. We are here for you our darling grandson
    All our love
    Oma and Opa xxxx

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