Sunday, August 15, 2010

"it's for my graft versus toast" (Day +153)



Max, Bee and I are very much enjoying being back at home. Over the past three weeks, Max has settled quite comfortably back into suburban living. As he is not particularly mobile and is unable to walk without assistance he is spending most of his time confined to the couch. Not that there has been any argument from him as it gives him ample opportunity to indulge in his passion for watching Top Gear. It has also given Bee the chance to make space for all the goodies Max accumulated in hospital and to give the house a big spring clean. I took the past week off work to spend some time hanging out on the couch with Max (which I excel at) and helping Bee with the tidying up (not so much).



When we last spoke, Max was battling a suspected infection in his knee joint. Fortunately the prescribed antibiotics turned things around very quickly and within a few days Max was able to put weight on his right leg again. This was a massive relief as if left untreated we were informed that the long term prognosis for his leg could be particularly nasty. His blood counts over the past couple of weeks have been cause for some slight concern. His platelet count, which had got as high as 137 (normal range for a healthy person: 150 - 450), was last Monday tracked at 52. We were told that the count may have been compromised as the nurse had found clots in the line when taking the sample. On Friday, the platelet count was up to 66, which represented an increase and yet it is still a long way off his high. His neutraphil counts have also dropped to now just 0.4 so the doctor decided to put Max on a course of GCSF, requiring daily injections via an insuflon catheter, to boost the production of his white blood cells.  His Haemoglobin count is on the rise and was last recorded at 90 (normal range for a healthy child: 111 - 160). What does this all mean? The doctors don't seem to be too concerned by the fluctuating counts. We keep getting told that this is normal post transplant and that the important thing to focus on is that the new marrow is working, it will just take time for it to get used to living in a new body.

Max still complains of a sore back and we think that this is most likely the cause of him being extremely hesitant when exerting himself physically, whether it be walking, crawling or moving from one position on the couch to another. His back was X rayed a couple of weeks ago and it showed that there were signs of crushed vertebrae, most likely the result of a deterioration in his bones due to the medication he is on. One of the side effects of being on such a high sustained dose of steroids is that it can weaken the bones. Again the doctors do not seem to be too concerned by his back. His dose of steroids is gradually being decreased and he his now taking calcium tablets daily so our hope is that his back will eventually sort itself out. The doctor is still happy for him to have physio and has encouraged us that given the position of the damaged verterbrae that exercise should actually improve his condition.



Max is still on a veritable smorgasbord of medications and will be for some time to come. Each day at  8 am he has 14 different medications, at 2 pm its 4 and at 8 pm he has 13, all by mouth. By now, he's familiar with most of the names of the medications and we often like to play a game during medicine time of asking him what each medication is and what it is supposed to treat. It is very funny to hear him repeat the names of the medications back to us. Our favourite response is when we ask him what Cyclosporin is for, he gleefully replies "it's for my graft versus toast!". Hilarious! He is also required to have a daily dose of two different antibiotics which need to be administered intravenously via his Hickman line. Fortunately, we don't have to go into hospital for this as the nurse comes to us, thanks to the nursing at home service provided by the hospital.  We are still making the trek back to the Hospital two times a week for appointments with the doctor, tests and physio sessions, but we are hoping that this will soon be reduced to a weekly event.


In other news, a few weeks back when we were still in hospital, Bee entered Max into a competition to win one of ten Wiggles Video Game packages, including a Wiggles Singstar Game, a Playstation 2 and two microphones. For those who haven't touched a video game console since the Atari, a Singstar game allows you to turn your Playstation video game console into a karaoke machine. To enter the competition, we had to film Max singing a Wiggles song and submit the entry via Youtube (you can see the entry below).



Two weeks ago Bee got an email telling us that Max had won one of the ten prize packs! A couple of days later we received the prize in the mail and I couldn't hook it up fast enough. We have enjoyed many a wiggles karaoke session since. Max's favourite song would either be 'Shimmie Shimmie' or 'Lights Camera Action Wiggles' while Bee has proved herself to be a demon at 'Dorothy the Dinosaur'. I'm more of a traditionalist and favour 'Toot toot chugga chugga' or 'Fruit Salad'.






Again, thanks to all for the well wishes, cards and messages of support. We'll be back with another update in a couple of weeks.

Cheers,

Timmo








5 comments:

  1. Hi all,
    I am so glad to read an update and hear despite Max's jiggery-pokery with his counts he continues to do well at home. I LOVED his Wiggles video - I think they should give him the other 9 packs as well! (actually had a little tear when I watched it, I think because of the outstanding nature of his singing, don't you?) Good to hear Tim is role-modelling being a couch potato for Max as this is not a skill men are naturally born with, is it? And Bee, please stop role-modelling cleaning for him immediately, if my three men are anything to go by he will not want this skill!
    Hope you are enjoying being at home and that your hospital visits drop to one per week asap. Please advise Max to adjust his counts immediately.
    Love you guys, will update Mack's blog soon to tell you of our recent adventures in America.
    Sue xxxx

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  2. Hi all,

    the Roeder family in Germany is still thinking about you every day.

    Benedikt (7) and Philipp (4) include Maxwell in their evening prayers. They frequently ask about him, how he is doing. They both have their own history with hospitals but they cannot imagine to undergo so much treatment as Max had to. They admire him for his bravery and hope that he will soon be better.

    Although you still have a long way to go it is so good to read that your are at home and that his legs are better. You are all doing a great job!

    A lot of hugs and love from the other side of the world

    Rosi, Max and the Roeder family.

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  3. Hi, It is SO fantastic to see all these Photos Max with that gorgeous grin back in place, Things must be on the up! (Surely it's the most reliable indicator) Take care of yourselves. Love Lis. xx

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  4. You both are doing such a good job. I'm so sorry that Max's situation is not improving, even though the doctors say it's "par for the course." The doctors seem clueless sometimes, and in reality they are (I don't mean that in a disrespectful way). They do not know everything about GVHD or chronic illness after BMT. They are human, intelligent, make mistakes, and are as scared about GVHD as you are. We have to respect that. We know our children the best and have to be their best advocate. You are doing such a great job.

    I loved hearing about your medication rituals. I wish he was not taking so many, but you are making the best of your situation, which is so uplifting. I believe happiness heals the bones. Laughter and smiles are good medicines for the body.

    Max is so adorable. I loved the video and so happy he won! I concur, his smile is a reliable indicator that things will improve.

    I love you all and we are hoping for miracles.

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  5. Heyyyyy What a great video, maybe another career option - Max the Pale Blue Wiggle? We are so happy to see the champ happy and settled at home and the singing followed by snap of him totally focused on the karaoke mic was the icing on the cake. Perhaps Tim you could start teaching him 'Good old Collingwood Forever'in readiness for GF day, with courageous Max on our side we are guaranteed of a win!!!!( A low blow I know but as the Hawks can't win with or without his support.....)we Pies desperates would love to get hold of him. Bee I hope you've finished with the nesting/ cleaning thing and can just enjiy some quiet and normality and the comfort of being home at last. Sending our love and good wishes.....Go Pies......the McGraths

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